The crazy challenge of bilingualising my family

martes, 17 de mayo de 2016

Misunderstandings


As deaf as a post?

I’ve always heard that the sooner we start to learn a second language, the better it is. Also, recent theories say that the best way to learn, and I fully agree, is by imitating the natural way of acquiring a second language. That’s to say, learning a language as children learn their own mother tongue.

On the one hand, here in Spain things are supposed to change (from Government’s perspective), which means that teachers have been told that they have to teach the four basic communication skills full time in English and following the natural way of language acquisition. In other words, children first understand, then speak, then read and finally write. So the correct order is: listening- speaking- reading- writing.
On the other hand, the problem is that things in Spain were done the other way round for a lot of years, and we still have a big bunch of teachers who are not fluent enough to put the theory into practice.

Last but not least, I’ve heard that we (Spanish) are as ‘deaf as a post’ when it comes to learning English, but I think we didn’t receive the amount of input required to develop language skills.

From a practical point of view, as our input was poor, we couldn’t develop a good ‘intuition skill’ for understanding a second language.
As usual, children are better than adults. They amazingly surprise us by saying things we have never wondered about.
I’m quite concerned about pronunciation. Specially if mispronouncing implies a change in meaning.
I do the same at home, my kids are young and as they are still learning how to say some words correctly in Spanish, I don’t particularly correct them when they mispronounce words in English, but the other day something happened at home: my 4 year-old misunderstood me. It was hilarious! The dialogue was more or less like:

HIM: “Mamá, ¿cómo se dice abrochar en English?
MUM: Button up
HIM: ¿eh? ¿Culo arriba?
MUM: Why are you saying ‘culo arriba’?
HIM: Dijiste “Bottom up”. Bottom, culo, up, arriba.
MUM: Ah! No, no, no, Bu-button, not bo-botton.

The thing is, he was probably right because I maybe said ‘bottom’ (or kind of). I learned English in Dublin, and then lived in Cork, and in many regions of Ireland the sound /ʌ/ is pronounced /ɒ/.


It was fantastic. This dialogue really pushed me to keep on speaking English to my children. It demonstrated me that the new language is truly getting into their wonderful, little brains.

viernes, 13 de mayo de 2016

CLOTHES


I’m back…
These days have been a bit different at home, kids were excited for their school festival so they were nervous, restless… For kids nervousness means happiness, but for mums that means quarrels and shouts.

I can’t change school events, so I did what I thought it was best: I joined the enemy!
I knew it was going to be impossible to sit them in a circle, to read them stories and talk about them afterwards, and that kind of thing, so as I had in mind to work with CLOTHES, I made my kids help me.

I love playing games IN ENGLISH. They think they are just having fun with mum but I am actually ‘organizing’ the game and repeating the same words all the time. My purpose is to teach them a particular vocabulary, not just play. Seriously, I love playing with them for the sake of playing, but I wouldn’t do it in English because it’s not my mother tongue. When I play in English it’s because I’ve got something else in mind.






In this case my ‘Guinea pigs’ (lovingly, I used to call them my Guinea pigs) coloured and cut clothes worksheets. We pretended we were hanging up the laundry (believe me, children think this is fun) so they had to find and hang up the garment they heard me call out.














They also did two types of carton board dice, one with drawings of pieces of clothes, and the other with clothes names written on it.  This game consists of rolling the dice, reading the word and saying the name of the drawing. If both dice match, you score a point.









We had fun with these activities, but I know they don’t understand this vocabulary yet. They still have to listen to these words many more times before they can start saying them spontaneously. No doubt, it means I HAVE TO say those words in English every time I use them.


Remember, the bigger the input, the quicker the output.